SENIOR CITIZEN SEX EDUCATION: SENIOR SEX QUESTIONS
“They wouldn’t let us if we wanted to.”
Now you are talking basic freedoms. You have the right to privacy, to do in private what you will with whom you will. If you feel inhibited by someone else’s encroachment on your life, you should act on that or ask for help to act on that. If any group of people deserves and has earned privacy, the dignity of continued personal and sexual development, it certainly is you. You have earned it much more than some thirteen-year-old in a parked car. Stand up for your sexual rights and the sexual rights of everyone in this room. Even if you don’t want to exercise those rights, they are yours for the choosing. Protect them.
“How can you have sex if you don’t feel good?”
How can you feel good if you don’t have sex? How can you feel good if you never touch and get touched, hold and get held? We have to stop thinking about aging as meaning not feeling good. Being sick is not automatically related to being older, and feeling active, alert, happy, and energetic depends much on behaving that way, and the same applies to sex. You will feel sexier if you keep on being sexual, and that in turn will help you feel generally better.
“Maybe you just don’t want to face it. Getting old means
getting high blood pressure, losing your memory, your ability to
get around and move around. It’s just a fact that you are trying to
romanticize away.”
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